[BugFix] ensure the latch can be counted down (backport #54859)

[mergify]

• latch may not be countdown due to threadpool abortion
• add cleaner to the runnable task, ensure the countdown is ticked when the task is destroyed

Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes https://github.com/StarRocks/StarRocksTest/issues/9033

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   be/src/util/threadpool.cpp
	modified:   be/test/service/lake_service_test.cpp

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	both modified:   be/src/service/service_be/lake_service.cpp
	both modified:   be/src/util/threadpool.h
	both modified:   be/test/util/threadpool_test.cpp

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@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr