bump GAP to 4.14.0

[dimpase]

This is a straightforward update of GAP to 4.14.0.
It will fix #39421 (macOS-specific bug breaking gap_packages in some configurations on arm64)

We also drop an upstreamed patch, and a no longer needed patch.

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[culler]

This looks good to me. I got clean builds of gap and gap_packages in the environment where the old gap_packages failed. The resulting GAP is able to load the crypting package.

[vbraun]

spkg-check fails, it expects a dev/log/testinstall2_* file that probably has been renamed

[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] testing: /Users/buildbot-sage/worker/sage_git/build/local/var/tmp/sage/build/g\
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] ap-4.14.0/src/tst/testinstall/zmodnze.tst
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check]       52 ms (50 ms GC) and 1.32MB allocated for zmodnze.tst
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] -----------------------------------
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] total     29840 ms (12180 ms GC) and 10.3GB allocated
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check]               0 failures in 299 files
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] 
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] #I  No errors detected while testing
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] 
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] ================================================================
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] Test log:
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] cat: dev/log/testinstall2_*: No such file or directory
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] ================================================================
[gap-4.14.0] [spkg-check] grep: dev/log/testinstall2_*: No such file or directory
[gap-4.14.0] Passed the test suite for gap-4.14.0.
[gap-4.14.0] Deleting build directory /Users/buildbot-sage/worker/sage_git/build/local/var/tmp/sage/build/gap-4.14.0
[gap-4.14.0] Finished installing gap-4.14.0
[gap-4.14.0] real 1m55.066s user 1m10.136s sys 0m27.011s
make[3]: Target `all-sage' not remade because of errors.
make[2]: *** [all-build] Error 2
make[2]: Target `build-start' not remade because of errors.