Use std shared_ptr, unique_ptr and enable_if #8817

Job	Run time
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, sync)	7m 7s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, async)	4m 3s
CMake gcc 12 (maintainer mode, sync)	4m 16s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter)	1m 53s
CMake test (with abseil)	2m 27s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, abiv2)	6m 36s
CMake clang 14 (maintainer mode, async)	7m 11s
CMake msvc (maintainer mode)	5m 17s
CMake test (with opentracing-shim)	2m 51s
CMake C++14 test(GCC)	4m 24s
CMake C++17 test(GCC)	5m 10s
CMake C++20 test(Clang with libc++)	3m 30s
CMake C++20 test(GCC)	2m 47s
CMake test (without otlp-exporter and with async export)	2m 1s
Bazel asan config	2m 10s
Bazel noexcept	1m 34s
Bazel nortti	4m 34s
Bazel	4m 52s
Bazel with async export	2m 40s
Bazel valgrind	4m 45s
Bazel with external abseil	1m 18s
CMake do not install test (with otlp-exporter)	10m 13s
CMake install test (with abseil)	2m 5s
CMake test (with modern protobuf,grpc and abseil)	15m 5s
CMake test (build shared libraries with otlp-exporter and static gRPC)	10m 5s
CMake test (with otlp-exporter)	10m 53s
Plugin -> CMake	1m 16s
Bazel on MacOS	6m 53s
Bazel tsan config	4m 52s
Benchmark	1m 18s
Code coverage	2m 26s
Copyright	7s
DocFX check	51s
Format	23s
markdown-lint	12s
misspell	7s
CMake -> exporter proto	8m 3s
Plugin -> CMake Windows	4m 14s
Bazel Windows	6m 20s
CMake (With async export) -> exporter proto	8m 27s
CMake -> exporter proto (Build as DLL)	8m 39s
	3h 3m 55s

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