MONGOID-5825 Do not update timestamp on destroyed #3913

Job	Run time
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 47s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	12m 47s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 48s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	12m 39s
jruby-9.3 driver-current mongodb-5.0 replica_set	21m 37s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.4 server	10m 17s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.4 replica_set	12m 40s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-4.0 server	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-4.0 replica_set	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-3.6 server	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-3.6 replica_set	1s
ruby-3.1 driver-master mongodb-5.0 replica_set	12m 55s
ruby-3.0 driver-stable mongodb-5.0 replica_set	11m 57s
ruby-2.6 driver-oldstable mongodb-4.0 replica_set	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-min mongodb-4.0 replica_set	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-min mongodb-3.6 server	1s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 37s
ruby-3.1 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 59s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 53s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 54s
ruby-3.0 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	10m 44s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-4.0 server	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-4.4 server	10m 20s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-4.2 server	1s
ruby-2.6 driver-current mongodb-4.2 server	1s
ruby-2.7 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	11m 0s
jruby-9.3 driver-current mongodb-5.0 server	18m 41s
	3h 30m 45s

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