MONGOID-5825 Do not update timestamp on destroyed (#5939) (#5944) #3912

Job	Run time
ruby-3.3 drv:current db:7.0 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 7s
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 25s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 6s
ruby-3.0 drv:stable db:6.0 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 23s
ruby-3.3 drv:current db:7.0 rails:8.0 fle:helper server	1m 59s
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:7.0 rails:7.2 fle:helper server	1m 52s
ruby-3.2 drv:current db:7.0 rails:7.1 fle:helper server	1m 34s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:7.0 rails:7.0 fle:helper server	1m 33s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	1m 38s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.1 fle:helper server	1m 43s
ruby-3.0 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	1m 43s
jruby-9.4 drv:current db:6.0 rails:6.0 fle:helper server	3m 9s
ruby-3.1 drv:current db:5.0 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 11s
ruby-2.7 drv:current db:4.4 rails: fle: replica_set	1m 28s
	22m 51s

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