Rewrite `CommonSubexprEliminate` to avoid copies using TreeNode #25654

Job	Run time
build with wasm-pack	2m 14s
cargo check	4m 22s
cargo test (macos)	6h 0m 14s
cargo test (win64)	5h 21m 50s
Check cargo fmt	43s
cargo test (macos-aarch64)	2h 24m 22s
Verify MSRV (Min Supported Rust Version)	6m 41s
Verify Vendored Code	1m 4s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	3m 28s
circular dependency check	2m 27s
cargo doc	3m 45s
cargo test (amd64)	4h 56m 54s
cargo test doc (amd64)	11m 14s
cargo examples (amd64)	10m 43s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	10m 17s
check Cargo.toml formatting	2m 54s
clippy	4m 43s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 28s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	4h 59m 53s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	3m 10s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 24s
	1d 0h 55m 50s

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