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 If you score highest in the direct communicator style you are results-oriented, focused, and competitive. Motivated to get things accomplished, you are quick and decisive. Because you are independent and confident, you prefer a busy, efficient and structured environment.
 Others may sometimes perceive you as impatient and demanding. Allowing others to share feelings and explain details can encourage dialogue.
 
+## Outline
 
-## Supportive
+* 4 styles in total; will only cover the top two
 
+* Supportive, 4
+* means somewhat listening, but know when to ask the question "and then what happened?"
+* knowing that sometimes people want to vent; not good at decerning this
+* 
 
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-## Direct
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+* Direct, 3
+* 5 to 7 minute speech could have been way more concise, but need credit
 * might be something that comes with getting older, but easy to tune out until the person gets to the point
+* watching videos with the speed turned up; other people wonder why and how
+* being concise when talking, perceived as not very social; 
+* dancing around the bush... the meeting could have been two line email