[Enhancement] add more metrics to help locate hotspot issues (backport #53490)

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Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Add more metrics to improve the observability of the system, mainly including the following parts:

1. add TableMetrics to observe table-level's queries and loads so that we can find hot spots
2. add IOMetrics to observe the disk io occupied by different components.
3. refactor the metrics related to pipeline executor: DriverExecutor of different resource groups will share global metrics, and use core local value instead of atomic variables as much as possible to reduce competition.
4. add more metrics to ScanExecutor and DriverExecutor.

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   be/src/common/daemon.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/CMakeLists.txt
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_executor.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_executor.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_poller.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_queue.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_queue.h
	new file:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_metrics.cpp
	new file:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_metrics.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/scan/olap_chunk_source.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/scan/olap_chunk_source.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/spill/log_block_manager.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/spill/serde.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/tablet_sink.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/tablet_sink.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/workgroup/pipeline_executor_set.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/workgroup/pipeline_executor_set.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/workgroup/scan_executor.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/workgroup/scan_executor.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/workgroup/work_group.cpp
	modified:   be/src/io/io_profiler.cpp
	modified:   be/src/io/io_profiler.h
	modified:   be/src/runtime/exec_env.cpp
	modified:   be/src/runtime/lake_tablets_channel.cpp
	modified:   be/src/runtime/local_tablets_channel.cpp
	modified:   be/src/runtime/tablets_channel.h
	modified:   be/src/storage/tablet.cpp
	modified:   be/src/util/CMakeLists.txt
	modified:   be/src/util/metrics.h
	modified:   be/src/util/starrocks_metrics.cpp
	modified:   be/src/util/starrocks_metrics.h
	modified:   be/src/util/system_metrics.cpp
	modified:   be/src/util/system_metrics.h
	new file:   be/src/util/table_metrics.cpp
	new file:   be/src/util/table_metrics.h
	modified:   be/test/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_queue_test.cpp
	modified:   be/test/exec/workgroup/pipeline_executor_set_test.cpp
	modified:   be/test/exec/workgroup/scan_task_queue_test.cpp

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add/rm <file>..." as appropriate to mark resolution)
	both modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/pipeline_driver_poller.cpp
	both modified:   be/src/service/staros_worker.cpp
	both modified:   be/src/service/staros_worker.h
	deleted by us:   be/test/exec/pipeline/schedule/observer_test.cpp

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@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr