Bump grpc.version from 1.59.1 to 1.61.0 #4300

Job	Run time
build-all	1m 58s
build-java11	1m 15s
tests (core, 8)	1m 11s
tests (driver, 8)	51s
tests (server, 8)	3m 13s
tests (test, 8)	6m 15s
tests (inmemory, -Dtest.skip.tp=false, 8)	30m 59s
tests (berkeleyje, 8)	8m 46s
tests (lucene, 8)	4m 21s
tests (core, -Pjava-11, 11)	1m 13s
tests (driver, -Pjava-11, 11)	58s
tests (server, -Pjava-11, 11)	3m 19s
tests (test, -Pjava-11, 11)	6m 32s
tests (inmemory, -Pjava-11, -Dtest.skip.tp=false, 11)	31m 4s
tests (berkeleyje, -Pjava-11, 11)	9m 2s
tests (lucene, -Pjava-11, 11)	4m 29s
	1h 55m 26s

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