[BUG] Learning rate scheduler and optimizer logical issue

[zhourunlong]

Describe the bug
The lr_scheduler takes effect after optimizer steps. This is a logical error, since the learning rate of the first optimization step is not generated by lr_scheduler. Concretely, if I initialize with both an optimizer with lr = x and a WarmupDecayLR scheduler with warmup_min_lr=y, then the first step learning rate would be x (instead of y), and then the second step learning rate would be y.

Perm link:
https://github.com/microsoft/DeepSpeed/blob/3d347276ce80e1a29e777c839d1d7fabe8e5f034/deepspeed/runtime/engine.py#L2109C28-L2109C64

### Tasks

[jomayeri]

@zhourunlong try the linked branch.