[Improvement] Add parameters to select a dependency JAR in the Gradle compileDistribution task.

[diqiu50]

What would you like to be improved?

In some development and integration testing scenarios, we want the Gradle compileDistribution task to be able to build the Gravtino server packages and their dependencies via configuration.
like:
gradle compileDistribution -Pwith_mysql
gradle compileDistribution -Pwith_aws
...

How should we improve?

No response

[justinmclean]

Please note that MySQL license (GPL) is not compatible with the Apache license and that needs to be made clear to the user when installing preferably with a prompt to ask if they are sure they want to do this.